The single biggest change you can make on a family trip is to stay longer in fewer places. Two or three bases is plenty for ten days.

Keep drives under three hours where possible, and plan them for after lunch when little ones may sleep.

Pastel villages tumbling down to the sea on the Amalfi Coast
Pastel villages tumbling down to the sea on the Amalfi Coast

Fewer stops, longer stays

Choose stays with space: a villa with a pool, a family suite, a garden. Everyone needs somewhere to be apart.

Children remember the turtle, not the temple. Plan for the turtle.

And build in one activity each day that the children choose. It changes everything.

Terraced rice fields near Ubud at sunrise
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Plans journeys for Elsewhere and writes about the places that stay with them.